Two weeks ago we received exciting news that Atholl's contract will be extended giving us another year in Tokyo. I had visions of myself kicking and screaming in September - I don't want to go home (yet!) and I felt quite emotional at the thought of leaving so soon. We've always known that 12 months in a city as exciting as this one, is definitely not enough time and 9 months into our stay having fully integrated into our BST school community we've made some really great friends from school, the neighbourhood, and our lovely chabad community. Definitely too premature to think of packing up again...
Friends back home often ask me - what is it about life in Tokyo that you love? Truthfully I think I could write an essay on how this ranks as one of the top places I've visited (and lived) for many reasons. We experience a degree of safety over here, that makes cities like London and Sydney feel unsafe in comparison: its absolutely OK to leave the house unlocked on a daily basis, leave items like wallet and phones in unlocked cars on the streets. I've even left my sleeping kids in the house to run across to my neighbour for something. Many kids we know, from as young as 9 or 10 years old commute independently to school: walking, riding bikes and taking public transport alone. Its remarkable to experience this considering how densely populated city this city is (about 13 million people live here). And as Ath recently put it, describing some
Only in Japan (OiJ) moments would probably suffice to validate this.
Atholl recently met a tourist from NYC in Starbucks who was having an OiJ moment. His cousin who lives in Japan had left his laptop in a local park in Tokyo that weekend. He frantically returned to the park the next day, almost 24 hours later, to find his laptop untouched in the spot he had left it. That's
OiJ.
Atholl's colleague told him a story how he recently lost his camera. When he retraced his steps along a busy Tokyo road an hour later, he found his camera on the sidewalk completely fine and placed in a safe spot so that no one would ride over it. That's
OiJ.
And another classic - was the story from Atholl's workmate, who left his wallet behind on a bus. He had assumed it was gone, but the next morning when he took his bus at the usual time, his wallet was in exactly the same place he had left it, with his cash inside! For sure, that's
OiJ!
In April Stacey visited us and we decided to take her and Aaron for lunch to Nakameguro, a great little neighbourhood. We had to buy her train ticket at Shibuya station and when we arrived at our destination station, the turnstiles wouldn't let her though. Initial thoughts were that we hadn't paid enough for the ticket, so we had to take the ticket to the station officer. Well turns out, she had overpaid! And the machine wouldn't let us through until she received her cash back for overpaying the equivalent of 20c!
OiJ! These anecdotes really illustrate what an overriding respect there is in Japan for people and for property that is not rightfully yours. Amazing.
Cleanliness and impeccable respect for the environment is another massive reason I love living in this urban megapolis. Trash is taken home with you because no dustbins exist around Tokyo. You can literally feed your kids off this city's streets, no jokes. You will find street cleaners everywhere, collecting bits of trash, cleaning skirting boards in departmental stores, sweeping the lanes in parks to keep them clear. Despite the millions of commuters on the subway daily, there's none of that London tube (underground) classic when we used to blow our noses at the end of the day to find black in the tissue from city pollution.
We've learned how to properly separate our garbage for waste management and recycling, which includes thoroughly washing out tins and bottles before we leave them for collection. This occurs on a Monday in our neighbourhood with a series of trucks, each one responsible for a different material (plastics truck, paper truck, tin truck etc) and don't cut corners by not washing out your jam jars and tuna tins thoroughly - they will not be collected.
This respect for people, their property and the environment has heightened my self awareness greatly. I think it's a humbling experience to live among such a respectful and orderly society. I definitely feel this has brought some 'calm' to the way I live and how I engage people.
...and then there's the cool, OMG moments, the radical stuff we see everyday that undoubtedly makes this coolest place in the world. The crazy architecture, fascinating parking garages where you park your car and then it disappears into a maze of cars underground or above street level controlled electronically. Getting lost down narrow alleyways and tiny roads to find quaint and quirky cafes and restaurants hidden in the nooks. Expressways (motorways) that weave their way throughout the city high above the street level, and the fanciest cars (not only Porsches, Ferraris, Lamborghini's by the dozen but we've spotted many Tesla's and Maybach's around (Ath told me that car is over $300,000!!) Departmental stores (on the Harrods and Selfridges scale) with magnificent foods courts where a melon can easily cost around 7000Y(around $70).
Service levels and punctuality are exceptional: tradesmen and service people turn up 5 minutes early every time to do a job. They'll bow as they say hello, take off their shoes when entering the home and have their cloth towels to clean up - leaving the job cleaner than they found it.
The animal thing is interesting too. We've seen pet goats at the street markets, a flower seller with his donkey in the middle of Shibuya, dog accessory shops with price tags that match Louis V, baby shops that sell strollers for dogs and dogs dressed smarter for the park than I do when I go out! Pet tortoises and rabbits in the park - street life entertainment at it's best. Life is a zoo out there for baby Jonah.
I've seen but not tried a green tea flavoured kit-kat in 7/11 and hear bells that ring every single day at 5pm. It's become a regular in our family to shout out ' that's the 5 clock bell'. I've been told they ring these musical bells daily to test the city's loud speakers, in case of emergencies, but for our crew it's our reminder that the day is at a close and time to start winding down.
I feel very blessed to live with my family in such a beautiful, safe and exciting city. I now fully appreciate the challenges expats face when repatriating back into the western world. My Kiwi neighbour Susan is leaving here next week after living away from NZ for the last 9 years - she told me she is going to face massive 'culture shock' when she heads home to NZ. And I couldn't agree more.
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| Dogrun at Yoyogi Park provides large areas for dogs to run according to dog size and weight. OiJ |
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| Making use of every inch of space..a car parking lot in Tokyo electronically controlled to move cars up and around |
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| Dog stroller for sale |
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| Near our home, a super thin house with its car wedged between the wall and stairs |
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| Earth Day festival Yoyogi (festivals here every weekend) |
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| Just a great sighting on way home from a run over a Tokyo bridge - a lone trumpet player |
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| Pet tortoises having a stroll in the park one Sunday |